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So what if a person, like I myself have done a couple of weeks ago, tells a guy flat out, straight up, no wishy-washyness, no sugar-coating, that they are not interested and wants nothing to do with love, dating or anything remotely related to that. Then the other person proceeds to tell you that they are a gift of God and does not understand why you would reject them. Then offer to send you shirtless pics. AND asks you what it is that they have to mold themselves into, to make them be appealing to the person they won't stop pursuing. Yes, I'm talking about one of my experiences here. I wish it were as easy as one simply moving on then and there, the very moment I reject a person. To continuously try to persuade me is one fantastic way to irritate me even more, to the point where I can't even stand the person's presence. I don't care if that makes me seem like I have an ugly personality. I told the person I appreciated their liking to me, and that I was immediately honest so as to not lead them on. "No" was just such a difficult response to accept.
I wonder why as a species we can't all be more blunt with each other and state our true objections and intentions. All this hint dropping or guess work leads to a lot of confusion, misunderstanding, and awkwardness. I'd rather people tell me to my face what they truly want or want from me that way we're all on the same page. I don't know why people like this he said she said bullshit
Girl - Drops hint.
Guy - Takes hint and leaves girl alone.
Girl - "Why has he stopped chasing me? Aren't I worth it? Bah! Men are all the same."
Guy - Takes new hint and tries again.
Girl - "Like, OMG, stop stalking me you weirdo."
... and so on.
I actually did that thing of pretending to fall for those handsome hunks online n showing their pictures to the guy(who I knew had a crush on me) so that he will get the hint and stop expecting me to like him back, without me having to say No on his face(which may eventually ruin our friendship).
I would give very highkey signs to show that I am not interested if I feel like a guy is interested in me but honestly even if a guy Friend ask me out for dinner I would be doubtful like okay maybe he’s just asking as a Friend and if I were to just tell him no I’m not interested, it would be weird and sound like I’m so full of myself to think he likes me. But giving very highkey signs to show I’m definitely not interested hopefully he can pick up on it. However, if he still doesn’t get it after a while I would tell him straight but honestly if u just like me just tell me so I can give you an answer straight. I don’t want to lead you on either but I can never be 100% sure you like me if you don’t tell me first
Maybe everyone should justbe straight at what they feel because being honest with someone is better than giving them hope then crushing it also men cant take a hint because we are stupid, if girls could take the hint they should just be honest
I prefer ppl plucking up their courage to talk things out, and noooo hinting as it’s also illustrated in the video that hinting doesn’t work so well. But, when comes to ppl who don’t wanna hurt me directly and see me cry to their face. I thanked for your kindness. But it just made me being stupid. I felt you being dishonest. I don’t know whether we could talk anymore.
If you really want to give a guy a hint just say you have a boyfriend or you aren't intrested. It will keep all the normal people away. Creeps will stay creeps, if you give them some crappy hint or just tell the truth.
Its easy to say "Women should just be more honest with men."
But when I've noticed women are attracted to me... I have never shot them down... Even if they are 0% attractive...
People typically only straight-up reject someone when they are really forced to (or they are drunk/candid)...
Oh then ... I think I'm gonna be single for awhile... hehehehe this will be fun... I will just stay home/go to work/meet my friends/sleep and repeat until I'm dead... best way to die just die alone and they will discover my body after a couple of days until it smells like dog shit and nobody will get hurt bcz nobody will like me... shit I just made myself cry knowing that this is probably what's gonna happen 😅😪
I had that happen once.... A chick who I was being overly nice with, and had somewhat decent chemistry with tried to set me up with her friend. Glad I didn't deal with her for much longer turns out she was batshit crazy. She kept trying to hook up to my roommate, who had a steady girlfriend at the time, that she knew.
I know from the second I see a person if there is more there than possible friendship. The more time I spend around this person and learn about them the feeling grows. I have never developed feelings out of nowhere for someone.
I started a new school this semester and made friends with a guy in another class. Now that our winterbreak is here he wrote to me saying I have melted his frozen heart or something like so, pretty yes because he's a writer but I am not interested. I told him my friends say they can trust me and I am glad I make him feel better.
Soo so soo true!!! I'm having this problem with one of my friends right now, but i was straight and completely honest with him.
I told him that i don't see him more than a friend and this is not ganna work and he's just making this awkward. And if he can't stop flirting and act like a friend, it's better if we just stop talking.
Should i feel guilty...?! 🙁
Guilty??? For what?! You did him a huge favour and yourself too. You know how many girls out there string men along for their own ego boost knowing full well (but just pretending not to know) that the guys like them? I am very proud you were direct and honest. Pat on the back to you!
Girls know where the conversation is going from the way you start the topic and all so it's just she Doesn't like you like that but wanna be friends with you. So if you'll give a girl a hint and think she didn't get it actually she did but she doesn't want it
I love this edgy look! I was so excited that her hair, even as short as it is now, was still able to be put into the fun and trendy dutch pigtail braids! Instead of braiding to the ends, I ended them in close together pigtails at the nape of her neck. After I finished braiding, I tugged on the outsides of the braid gently to loosen them and make them a little messy and fun! Since she doesn’t have enough hair to tie around the elastics, I made sure to use elastics that matched her hair so they blend in as much as possible. You could also cover them with clips or bows! A view from the back of her Dutch pigtail braids! A great braid for short hair is a micro accent braid! My biggest tip for braiding short hair would be to add in small slices of hair rather than big ones. I did a small (micro) braid along a slightly curved deep part for anther cute and edgy look! You could also do another one next to it if you wanted a little more to the look, but I really liked how simple this one was. You can see how the part curves a little better from this view of the back. I ended the braid close to the head with an elastic that matched her hair. For our fourth style, we did a 3/4 french braid! Super simple but also super cute! You could do any type braid! It would also look cute using a Dutch braid or a fishtail braid! I loved the side view of this braid! I will for sure be doing this one next time she goes to gymnastics or swimming, whichever comes first! Our last braid is two four dutch lace braids into two loops in the back. Start off by parting the hair down the middle. On each side of the part, do a dutch lace braid, adding hair in from only the section closest to the part as you braid. Tie the braids together in the back with a small elastic and before you pull the hair all the way through to make a ponytail, leave it in a cute little loop! If the hair is a little bit longer, you could do a tiny bun. Repeat this directly under the braid you just did so you have two rows and two loops.
We will have to be coming up with lots more short hair braids in the future, so be sure to give us a follow over at our newly redesigned blog Abella’s Braids to see more as we do them!
Thanks for reading! See you again this time next month!
love these ideas! My daughter recently cut about 8 inches off her hair and is loving her shorter hair, but I’ve mostly been at a loss of what to do with it! Thanks!
Abella has been begging me for at least a year, probably closer to two years, to cut her hair. I posted a photo on Instagram with a question in the caption. “Abella has been begging me to cut her hair short, do you think I should let her do it?” Almost everyone said “YES!” So thanks to all of the good advice from my followers, we did it…and we haven’t regretted it for a second! I think she looks so cute and it really fits her personality! It’s for sure a lot harder to come up with braids but it’s pushed me to step out of my comfort zone! We wanted to show you that even if you have short hair, there are lots of cute braids you can still do!
This first braid (above) is three ladder braids. Start out with a part deep to one side. On the side with less hair, start out by doing a waterfall braid along the part. Under that one, do another waterfall braid, but incorporate the waterfall pieces from the one above it as you braid. Under that one, do a french braid. Incorporate the waterfall pieces from the second braid as you go. We braided each one to the ends and used elastics that matched her hair to tie them off.