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Isabel was a confident girl. She loved herself, in a good way, and she felt like she had her life under control and moving in the right direction, and, she felt skinny - underweight actually - which at her school and with her friends was really important (much more important than it should have been).
At her school being skinny and underweight was normal, like you needed to be skinny and underweight to be perfect - perfect equals beautiful, and who doesn't want to be perfectly beautiful, right? Gaunt, thin, boney. So, after her doctor told her that her BMI (Body Mass Index) indicated being underweight, she was like "yeah! I got this!"
So, one day, at lunch with her friends, she told them "My doctor says I'm underweight and I'm really happy about that!" BUT, one of her so-called friends said "Uh, really? Are you sure you're underweight?" And then she asked Isabel how much she weighed - NOT COOL! Isabel froze, she didn't want to say how much she weighed, and she could tell that the conversation was going somewhere mean and not nice. She tried to change the subject but her "friends" wouldn't let it go, wouldn't drop it.
She finally just told them what the scale told her that morning and her friends were mean and insulting - one of them said "Umm, I'm not sure that's underweight" The rest of them joined in, saying "yeah, that's not skinny," and " that sounds like it's just average." And, in her school, the word "average" was like an insult of the worst kind. There, being underweight means you're beautiful, and being average means you're not, it means your fat, or your ugly. They just body-shamed her as much as they could.
From that day on, for months, Isabel always looked in the mirror, any reflection she caught of herself she saw an average person, an overweight person, an imperfect person. She wasn't confident anymore. All she saw were faults, flaws and imperfections. She thought her face was too round, her belly stuck way out, her thighs were huge, her butt was huge, and her arms were fat.
One day - even though she was perfectly beautiful - she looked in the mirror and said "I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT." She started dieting, restricting her eating, and skipped meals. She skipped breakfast, and lunch, and sometimes even dinner. Not only did she start losing weight, but she also lost all of her muscles, and all of her energy and strength. She couldn't even do her push-ups at Tae Kwon Do, and her ribs started to show, and even though it looked like she was sick, to her, finally, she felt like she was starting to look normal.
She had convinced herself that having your ribs poke out, and arms like sticks, and bony legs, and sharp features was perfect. And, even though she was told that she was making herself sick, and even though she had to start eating again to have enough energy to make it through each day, still, in the back of her mind those terrible voices kept saying "you're fat," and "you're not pretty." "I was never skinny enough," she sadly thought. Was she getting the skinny disease? Anorexia?
After watching some positive YouTube videos and listening to the people who actually loved and cared about her, she started to realize that EVERY BODY IS BEAUTIFUL. Just because some girls have tiny little waists, or skinny little arms, or long slim faces, that didn't mean that she needed to have those.
No, Isabel realized that being unique is beautiful, that beauty is the whole package, the person, the heart and soul and not just the body and some idea that other people plant in your head. "Even though I may not look perfect, I am normal."
Isabel realized, once and for all, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE SKINNY TO BE BEAUTIFUL!
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This really inspired me even though all of my friends never judge me or anyone else i have alot of self-criticism and i think that my stomach pokes out too much and im overweight but im average weight and everybody says that im beautiful and its comforting to know im not the only one
Fact: If you’re like a tall person for a grade 6 and you’re 115 pounds, that’s not fat. You’re just tall. Of course you’re going to have to earn more pounds because you’re getting taller. Not losing weight because you’re getting taller.
Because I am now at the age of being feeling like a fat, so could someone tell me experience with my tummy is just big or not really friends say I'm perfect just like this but I don't believe my tummy doesn't really look like a big but When everyone who uses Musicall so they have a muscular tummy and I'm jealous 😭😭
I'm a little okay with my body but I just don't like my face. It's seems ugly and most of my bffs have boyfriends/girlfriends and I feel very outcast because they are mostly light skin and I am kinda dark to the point u can't really see my face in pictures and I just don't understand that cuz I got most of my genes from my dad and he is lighter than me. Out in public with my mom and my older brother I feel even more lonely cuz like I am chubbier than my mom and brother. I don't look like them that much. My mom was introducing her coworker to my brother and I. She looked at me then at my brother and said, "That ones yours." My mom didn't notice it but I was very hurt. I'm very good about hiding my feelings so no one notices how apart I feel. And for my friends that are dark skinned like me just have pretty faces that just glow. Mine is ugly and unwanted. I know maybe someone will love me but I feel like I'm gonna die alone...
Hey I love that your message is that we are all beautiful but I'm always worried that I'm fat like every girl in my class there very skinny but for me I'm wide and fat I always struggle with depression with that I cry every day in my room that I pray to God I want to be skinny I want to be skinny like I exersize alot like nomal but I am not getting any skinnyer like want to suiside but I'm scared and I don't want others to be sad
It's good to be a little bit fat, cuz then you'll have more damage resistance, I know that may not make any sense at first, but if you think about it, it makes sense, because the more fat you have on you, the harder it takes for attacks to get to the stuff underneath your skin
For a highschooler 115 pounds+ is normal! Never be ashamed of your body! Always embrace it! (not in an inappropriate way lol) I went through the same thing as the girl in this video did
im in middle school and im 53 kg
I can agree to this so much, a couple months ago, I realized that I wasn’t skinny, I was average. I keep trying to lose weight, but only lost 5lbs. When I started eating normal again I started cutting and now I don’t know what to do anymore...I’m down to 83lbs (I’m 4’11) and I don’t know why but this voice in my head keeps saying I’m fat and that I HAVE to get to at least 79lbs to look beautiful.
Girlllllllll does it matter how skinny you are I'm freaking thick and fat and peaple say I'm way to skinny case I only wear stretchy pants so I'm like no I'm not! I get mad and sad so don't think it's ok to be super skinny peaple still say and think ur rlly skinny so it doesn't even matter but it's also ok to be skinny it's just peaple don't ever change so don't worry to change
I love this edgy look! I was so excited that her hair, even as short as it is now, was still able to be put into the fun and trendy dutch pigtail braids! Instead of braiding to the ends, I ended them in close together pigtails at the nape of her neck. After I finished braiding, I tugged on the outsides of the braid gently to loosen them and make them a little messy and fun! Since she doesn’t have enough hair to tie around the elastics, I made sure to use elastics that matched her hair so they blend in as much as possible. You could also cover them with clips or bows! A view from the back of her Dutch pigtail braids! A great braid for short hair is a micro accent braid! My biggest tip for braiding short hair would be to add in small slices of hair rather than big ones. I did a small (micro) braid along a slightly curved deep part for anther cute and edgy look! You could also do another one next to it if you wanted a little more to the look, but I really liked how simple this one was. You can see how the part curves a little better from this view of the back. I ended the braid close to the head with an elastic that matched her hair. For our fourth style, we did a 3/4 french braid! Super simple but also super cute! You could do any type braid! It would also look cute using a Dutch braid or a fishtail braid! I loved the side view of this braid! I will for sure be doing this one next time she goes to gymnastics or swimming, whichever comes first! Our last braid is two four dutch lace braids into two loops in the back. Start off by parting the hair down the middle. On each side of the part, do a dutch lace braid, adding hair in from only the section closest to the part as you braid. Tie the braids together in the back with a small elastic and before you pull the hair all the way through to make a ponytail, leave it in a cute little loop! If the hair is a little bit longer, you could do a tiny bun. Repeat this directly under the braid you just did so you have two rows and two loops.
We will have to be coming up with lots more short hair braids in the future, so be sure to give us a follow over at our newly redesigned blog Abella’s Braids to see more as we do them!
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love these ideas! My daughter recently cut about 8 inches off her hair and is loving her shorter hair, but I’ve mostly been at a loss of what to do with it! Thanks!
Abella has been begging me for at least a year, probably closer to two years, to cut her hair. I posted a photo on Instagram with a question in the caption. “Abella has been begging me to cut her hair short, do you think I should let her do it?” Almost everyone said “YES!” So thanks to all of the good advice from my followers, we did it…and we haven’t regretted it for a second! I think she looks so cute and it really fits her personality! It’s for sure a lot harder to come up with braids but it’s pushed me to step out of my comfort zone! We wanted to show you that even if you have short hair, there are lots of cute braids you can still do!
This first braid (above) is three ladder braids. Start out with a part deep to one side. On the side with less hair, start out by doing a waterfall braid along the part. Under that one, do another waterfall braid, but incorporate the waterfall pieces from the one above it as you braid. Under that one, do a french braid. Incorporate the waterfall pieces from the second braid as you go. We braided each one to the ends and used elastics that matched her hair to tie them off.